Yes, I often find myself communicating different with people depending on the group and culture. When I communicate with my family and friends I use informal language and different voice tones. My family is very loud and opinionated and to some looking in you would think that we just argue and holler. It is quite funny if you did not know us but that is the way we communicate. We crack jokes, laugh, and sometimes get mad! My communication, of course, changes when I am at work. My tone changes and the words I use change. I become the active listener that was discussed in earlier lessons. I take in consideration of all people involved and do my best to relate to their feelings and ideas. Communication with my friends is also very informal. We have known each other since elementary and we usually crack jokes and sometimes say inappropriate things that would not be acceptable any place else.
In this week's lesson I have learned more things about communication. To improve my communication with others I will strive to be more empathetic toward others and how they feel about things. I learned that it is not always important to get my message across but to understand the message that others are trying to get across. After reading the article about nonverbal communication, I have become more conscious of my body and facial movements. Many of my friends have said that they could tell what I was thinking by the look on my face. When working with families, this is something that I need to be more aware of in the future.
Hi Shorlone,
ReplyDeleteThis was actually a pretty good topic to discuss. I as well find myself communicating differently depending on my company. Truth of the matter is we communicate with individuals differently everyday because everyone is different in their own way. It can go deeper than how we communicate with say our friends compared to our parents or grouped friends compared to how we communicate with our spouse or person we are in a relationship with. Communication is such a tricky thing but if used appropriately and effectively can help ourselves and others around us grow strong.
Shorlone,
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed your post! Your family sounds a lot like my in-laws. I love being with them and we get along great. I remember the first time I met them I was so nervous, but after being with them for 5 minutes I let all my guards down and joined in with them.